Who's Marvin? Leo?!

I'm a huge fan of Will and Grace. I have almost every season thanks to Tam picking them up on sale at Target.

Remember when Grace got married to Leo? The first time around? During the reception, Grace's mother-in-law asked her about "Marvin". Grace asked who "Marvin" was. Leo raises his hand. The shit hits the fan. Grace began to find these important truths about Leo that never surfaced before. Grace is upset because she felt like she married a stranger/liar face.Grace runs out of the reception with Will chasing after her. Then the arc ends on a happy note.

WeIl, I found out some odd truths about someone I have known for a year or two. It was an "OMFG " moment where my mouth dropped in disbief. Then more truths spill out and I'm beyond floored. Its sort of like finding out that the Santa Claus at the mall isn't really " the real Santa ". But instead of being disappointed, I'm more annoyed. Very WTF?!

I found myself wondering why this person did not speak the truth about themself. Was this person ashame of themself? No, that can't be. Maybe this person is bored with themself that they have this need to fool people. Or encompass themselve into a different persona because they want a reaction from people.Or they encompass a different persona due to interest or admiration they have with this character.Perhaps, that's it. I can try to understand these reasons to a degree.

However,I find this all annoying and weird that the truth never surfaced from this person. If anything, they kept lying and making up stories. Stories that I believed due to my naïve nature.

Lesson of the day: don't hide who you are. Fess up to the truths about yourself.and life will be a lot less stressful.